Coaches' Updates
Coaches have to deal with all sorts of scenarios week in and week out. Each week John will address a question that has been sent in by an AYSO coach. If you have a question that you want answered please e-mail John (heycoach@ayso.org).
Question: Many of my U-14 and U-12 players have Facebook pages. Recently, they discovered that I also have one. Now I'm getting friend requests from 14 year olds. As much as I'd like to keep in touch, an adult 'friending' a child I'm not related to seems a bit creepy. I'm aware that some individuals will create a secondary profile and tie it to a Region Facebook page. Do you have any suggestions?
Answer: It's hard to believe that social networking sites like Facebook, Myspace, LinkedIn and Twitter were barely heard of five years ago! Today, Facebook alone boasts over 500 million users worldwide, with 11 percent of its users under the age of 18. While Facebook is a useful communication tool and another way to build connections with your players, there are also potential problems that can arise for you as a volunteer coach.
Coaches should not use Facebook as a means of communicating with your players. “Friending” players on Facebook can give way to misconduct, misunderstandings and accusations. For these reasons, AYSO strongly recommends that coaches, and all other adult volunteers, do not friend minor AYSO players on Facebook, or communicate with them through any other social media.
Some Regions have created Facebook pages that are used for everything from notifying players of upcoming tournaments or other events to sharing photos of games. Parents and volunteers can also share game-day and tournament photos with Shutterfly – a safe and easy photo sharing site that makes preserving AYSO memories simple.
Also, if you’d like, you can show support for your Region by “liking” their Facebook page, and connect with other volunteers and parents in your community.
You are certainly not the only coach facing this concern, as there are currently almost 500 AYSO-related profiles or groups on Facebook! When utilized in the right way, Facebook can be a great resource for you as a volunteer coach.
Answer: First of all, reject the old-school approach for kids. Running laps will only increase the chances that they'll avoid physical activity, because that's not fun and it can be humiliating. However, all coaches must understand that conditioning is part of training, so instead of running laps, let the kids play! That's right–just let them play.
One idea is to have the kids play small-sided games in short intervals. For example, you can set up 2-v-2 games that last for a few minutes and then give the players a short rest before starting another 2-v-2 game. It's like circuit training. After a little rest, the kids may be more eager to play again.
You can also introduce variations of small-sided games. Take your best player and pair him or her up with the out of shape child. Tell them the aim is that both players score. The players will try hard to score and won't even realize they're "working."
The beauty of soccer is that it demands physical exertion but can be so much fun that it doesn't feel like exercise.
Answer: First of all, I don’t want any screaming at children from coaches. Screaming has no place in youth soccer. It takes the fun out of playing and it doesn’t help create better players.
The scenario you describe is, of course, particularly disturbing. When players face a one-on-one battle they need to focus on the ball. To be screamed at only throws off their focus. It is simply counter-productive, and, as you point out, dangerous.
The defender wants to keep her ground and make a move for the ball at exactly the right time. If the defender prematurely lunges at the attacker, the defender is giving the advantage to the attacker. For a coach to scream at a defender to make the first move makes no soccer sense.
A defending player’s first aim is to prevent the attacker from moving past her. It's a matter of proper body positioning and can be trained during practices. (Lead with the shoulder, one foot in front of the other, so you can shuffle laterally.)
That’s a matter of soccer technique. Most important is that this coach is out of control. And he might not even know it. It’s true! The screamers often don’t even realize they’re screaming. They get caught up in the moment.
So the first step is indeed to talk to the coach: “Do you realize you’re constantly screaming at the players?” That alone might make him reflect on his behavior.
If this doesn’t work, and the coach actually believes that this screaming approach is acceptable, it should be addressed by the administrators of the league.
WHY SHORT-SIDED SOCCER?
Because young players need special consideration. Little research or attention has been given this critical period in the development of the under-12 year old players, but most educators agree the early learning experiences are the most important and result in the result in the most retention.
Traditionally, youth soccer programs are viewed from an adult perspective, using the 11-a-side game as a reference. But we need to remember these important points about young players:
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